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Christmas: Self-care tips on how to cope with a stressful season

Christmas is often portrayed as the happiest time of the year, filled with laughter, connection, and celebration. But the reality is, for many people, it’s also one of the most stressful. Financial pressures can pile up, with expectations to buy the “perfect” gifts or host grand gatherings. Social commitments can feel overwhelming, especially when they…

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Podcast: Bobby Lee’s Journey Through Trauma and Growth

In a deeply personal episode of the Soul Boom podcast, Bobby Lee, a Korean American stand-up comedian, actor and podcaster, shared his stories involving family trauma, addiction, and the transformative power of therapy. His story is not just about recovery, but also a testament to the importance of understanding and healing the layers of pain…

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Part 2: Practical Steps to Restore your Boundaries and Limits

In Part 1, we explored the personal and cultural factors that contribute to underdeveloped boundaries and limits in Asian Australian culture. Let’s dive into actionable steps you can take to strengthen and assert your boundaries in everyday life. Here are some practical steps to help you build and reinforce your boundaries and limits: 1. Identify…

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Part 1: Understanding Boundaries and Limits in Asian Australian Culture

Do you often feel like your life isn’t entirely your own? Like the decisions you make, the actions you take, and the paths you follow are more dictated by others than by your own desires? You’re not alone. For many Asian Australians, the family or community often takes precedence over the individual, and boundaries and…

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Do You Know Your Stress? A Guide For Helping Professionals

As professionals dedicated to helping others, it’s crucial to recognise the specific type of stress you’re experiencing. Are you facing burnout, compassion fatigue, or vicarious trauma? Each of these has distinct characteristics that can profoundly impact your well-being and your ability to care for others. Burnout: When Workplace Stress Becomes Overwhelming Definition: Burnout is a…

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Are You Ready To Start Therapy?

Four years ago, I shared my journey of going to therapy for the first time. Since then, I’ve had countless conversations with clients about their doubts and uncertainties when considering therapy. Today, I want to revisit those themes and address some common, often unspoken questions you might have if you’re contemplating whether therapy is right…

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Liar, Cheater, Womaniser: Unmasking The True Reasons Behind Our Actions

In life, we often encounter periods of profound change that challenge our sense of self and the dynamics of our relationships. As a mental health service dedicated to serving men, we often meet clients who are grappling with feelings of guilt, shame, and confusion. It is increasingly popular for men to engage in online communications…

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From Procrastination And Low Self Esteem To Inner Wellbeing

In the fast-paced world we live in, it’s not uncommon to feel overwhelmed and stuck. Recently, many of our clients come with struggles of low self-esteem, procrastination, and a lack of motivation that had left them unable to complete daily tasks or maintain their professional lives or vocation. These stories deeply resonate with us. We…

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